In the hunter and gatherer days, many things were different to how they are today. Male and female roles are very different today, as are the divorce rates. If you find yourself separated and you want to win your ex back, what has been forgotten along the way?
With modern society, a lot of unfairness has been ironed out (forgive the pun) of the workplace, ensuring equal reward for equal effort, regardless of your sex. Promotions are being offered to whoever deserves it the most. Women have worked very hard toward removing sexist work practices. However, we need to be vigilant that this movement does not spill into every aspect of life. To maintain happiness in a relationship requires remembering that a mans and woman's needs can vary greatly.
What a woman needs is very different to what a man needs.
To feel secure, she needs her man to also be secure about who he is. She needs him to be her "man".
The woman needs her partner to provide security, on a financial level or an emotional level.
She needs to be attracted to his confidence, and in his ability to "lead" her in public.
She needs to feel a connection that is not just lust driven. She wants to know that she will be stimulated well into the future, so there need to be similar interests and passions.
A woman may think that she needs to bring out the sensitive side of her man, that he needs to be more like a woman. But what she may not realize, is that she needs her man to be a MAN.
Men are quite different in their requirements. The number one need for a man is to be a MAN. If a man senses that someone is trying to take this away from him, his survival instincts will kick in and he will leave.
If a man seeks a woman, these are the qualities he will look for.
Loyalty is very important. He must know that she will be consistent and dependable in her actions.
Support. He needs confirmation that his woman is on his side, and that she will support him in his choices.
Consistency is crucial. His lady should not say something, but then go and do something different.
Trust. If he is questioned about everything that happens, he will feel he isn't trusted.
So, once upon a time it didn't even occur to society what was needed for their happiness. Men needed to be men if they were to protect their family from wild animals. And the women felt like they had their "man". It never occurred to them that they wanted their man to be more feminine. Today we don't face the same dangers, and our lifestyle allows men and women to share many roles. However, we don't realize that modern life is also robbing us of our core needs in a relationship, resulting in a growing number of relationship failures. Society should not have to change the progress that has been made in the workplace, but if you can be taught what your core needs are, you can begin to integrate them into your personal life, and to win your Ex back can be a reality.
With modern society, a lot of unfairness has been ironed out (forgive the pun) of the workplace, ensuring equal reward for equal effort, regardless of your sex. Promotions are being offered to whoever deserves it the most. Women have worked very hard toward removing sexist work practices. However, we need to be vigilant that this movement does not spill into every aspect of life. To maintain happiness in a relationship requires remembering that a mans and woman's needs can vary greatly.
What a woman needs is very different to what a man needs.
To feel secure, she needs her man to also be secure about who he is. She needs him to be her "man".
The woman needs her partner to provide security, on a financial level or an emotional level.
She needs to be attracted to his confidence, and in his ability to "lead" her in public.
She needs to feel a connection that is not just lust driven. She wants to know that she will be stimulated well into the future, so there need to be similar interests and passions.
A woman may think that she needs to bring out the sensitive side of her man, that he needs to be more like a woman. But what she may not realize, is that she needs her man to be a MAN.
Men are quite different in their requirements. The number one need for a man is to be a MAN. If a man senses that someone is trying to take this away from him, his survival instincts will kick in and he will leave.
If a man seeks a woman, these are the qualities he will look for.
Loyalty is very important. He must know that she will be consistent and dependable in her actions.
Support. He needs confirmation that his woman is on his side, and that she will support him in his choices.
Consistency is crucial. His lady should not say something, but then go and do something different.
Trust. If he is questioned about everything that happens, he will feel he isn't trusted.
So, once upon a time it didn't even occur to society what was needed for their happiness. Men needed to be men if they were to protect their family from wild animals. And the women felt like they had their "man". It never occurred to them that they wanted their man to be more feminine. Today we don't face the same dangers, and our lifestyle allows men and women to share many roles. However, we don't realize that modern life is also robbing us of our core needs in a relationship, resulting in a growing number of relationship failures. Society should not have to change the progress that has been made in the workplace, but if you can be taught what your core needs are, you can begin to integrate them into your personal life, and to win your Ex back can be a reality.
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